Your Guide to Speed Dating Success

Young professionals to seasoned romance seekers, learn how speed dating optimizes your chances of finding love.

Weather you’re a 30-year-old professional dipping your toes into the dating scene or a 60-year-old ready to find love again, speed dating is a fun, exciting way to meet new people. At Gold Star Matchmakers, we’re passionate about helping singles of all ages connect through our carefully curated events, from lively nights to cozy gatherings at the local community centre. Nervous about your first speed dating event? Don’t worry! Our matchmaking experts have put together this guide to help you shine, whether you’re 25 or 65. Let’s get you ready to find your spark!

1. Dress for the Occasion (and Your Comfort)

Your outfit sets the tone, so choose something that makes you feel confident and fits the venue. For our events at bars, younger singles (25–45) might opt for a stylish yet casual look—think a sharp blazer for men or a chic dress for women. For over-50 events at community centers or churches, go for smart-casual attire, like a crisp sweater or tailored slacks, that feels polished but relaxed.

Tip for Over-50 Daters: If you’re re-entering the dating scene, pick an outfit that reflects your personality. A favourite scarf or classic watch can spark a conversation and ease you into the moment.

2. Ace the Questionnaire for Better Matches

Our speed dating events stand out because of our AI-driven matchmaking questionnaire. Before the event, you’ll answer a few questions about your interests, values, and what you’re looking for in a partner. This helps us pair you with compatible singles, whether you’re seeking adventure or a cozy night in.

For younger daters, share what excites you—maybe it’s exploring Edmonton’s food scene or biking along the Sturgeon River. For those over 50, reflect on what matters most now, like shared values or a love for the local Farmers’ Market. Be honest—your answers are confidential and make all the difference in finding a great match.

3. Spark Great Conversations

Each speed date lasts 10 minutes, so come prepared with conversation starters that feel natural. We will also include some predetermined conversation starters tailored to you to get you conversation off to a good start.

Tip for Over-50 Daters: If you’re nervous about dating again, focus on listening and sharing positive stories. A genuine smile and curiosity can make your date feel at ease, especially in the welcoming setting of a church or community centre.

4. Embrace the Experience with an Open Heart

Speed dating is about possibility, so keep an open mind. Younger singles might meet someone who shares their love for Edmonton’s nightlife, while over-50 daters could connect over a passion for community events or quiet evenings. Not every date will be a love match, but every conversation is a chance to learn, laugh, or make a new friend.

5. Take the Next Step with Confidence

At the event, you’ll let us know who you’d like to see again. If there’s a mutual match, we’ll share contact details so you can keep the conversation going. For younger daters, a quick text about a local coffee spot can kick things off. For over-50 singles, a friendly email or call mentioning your chat—like, “I loved hearing about your favourite hiking trail!”—feels personal and warm.

Ready to Find Your Match?

No matter your age, speed dating with Gold Star Matchmakers is your chance to meet someone special. Join us at our next event, whether it’s a lively night for singles 25–45 or a cozy over-50 gathering at the local Church. Sign up today and complete our matchmaking questionnaire to start your journey to love!